Today, I only sub'd half a day. It was such a beautiful day, I decided to go out to a park and just sit and read for a few hours. Well, after a couple hours, around three high school aged boys started fishing across the lake (it's a pretty small lake). From the time they walked up, filth was coming out of their mouths. Every other two words was the 'f' word or some other profanity. Now, any one who knows me well knows that I hate hearing profanity. Many times, I've turned off a movie because I can't stand the profanity...these days, I've resigned myself to sit out most movies for this reason. That's a sad fact...but, I refuse to corrupt my mind or heart by listening to senseless vulgarity. (Please note that I'm not criticizing those who watch profanity-laced movies; I'm just incredibly sensitive to it.)
Anyway, these teenagers mouths were uttering such putrid filth that I yelled across the lake and asked nicely, "Hey guys, do you mind watching your language?" I think they were a little surprised, cuz they didn't say anything for several moments. They finally said, "What?" So, I repeated myself. They didn't say anything again; just remained silent. Then, they went on talking. A little later, one of 'em started up again, and I asked again for them to watch their language. He asked why, and I told him because it's a public place with children within earshot, a playground with children nearby. He yelled back, "I hear adults saying it all the time!" I said, "Well, obviously, they're either saying it in private or being disrespectful of those around them in public." After this cross-lake conversation was done, they stopped swearing, although I heard some comment like, "Have you ever heard of the First Amendment?" I was impressed by the fact that they did honor my request.
Later, one of them accidentally stepped in the lake and got his shoe all wet (profanity-less, I should note). His solution? To go to Wal-Mart and steal a pair of shoes. "Yeah, my friend one time in JCPenney just took off his old shoes, put 'em in the box of new shoes, and walked out with the new shoes." What was his response to his friend? It wasn't, "Dude, that's wrong...it's stealing." Nope, it was, "Dude, there's cameras around...you'll get caught!"
Now, trust me, I do not enjoy confrontations like this, although it's happened a few times in my life; I've found it necessary. Sometimes, I feel like someone needs to snap another into reality. What scares me, though, is that I'm now the one dreaming...that there are still standards and manners that people follow. Do I need to be awakened? It doesn't surprise me, though, with so many surrounding themselves with profanity in movies and music and on the Internet. Now, I'm not saying that everyone nowadays is swearing and lying and stealing without a second thought. But, I do believe that Christian's standards are slipping...and, it is a desperate situation, because we are supposed to be a restraining force against evil in the world.
No longer do many Christians think it grieves the Father's heart to hear vulgarity come out of their mouths. I hear profanity coming from the mouths of so many Christians nowadays. What do they do? They claim their rights and freedom in Christ, just as that young man claimed his rights under the Constitution. I thought, though, that we were supposed to deny ourselves (our rights), take up our cross, and follow Christ. We are to come out and be separate from the world, while remaining salt and light within it. We are to imitate Christ, follow in His steps...for some reason, I can't imagine Christ uttering vulgarities. Can you? We will be held accountable for every word we utter.
With [our mouth] we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in the likeness of God; from the same mouth come both blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be this way.
-James 3:9-10
Take my words for what they're worth. Please don't think I'm trying to take the speck out of the eyes of those around me. Trust me, I know I've got a bunch of planks coming from my eye, especially regarding my mouth. It just frustrates me to see so many around seem to be slipping into what is easier, blending with the trends of the world around them (Romans 12:2).
On a different note, I had a wonderful afternoon of reading and relaxing. I began reading, among other books, Night by Elie Wiesel. It's a very moving account by Mr. Wiesel about his experience as a Jewish boy in Auschwitz.
Have a great rest of the week!!! :o)
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